How to raise the autonomy of the child: a Handbook for parents of preschoolers
Good afternoon dear readers and visitors of the site “Family and childhood”. The autonomy of the child is the main character trait that promotes rapid adaptation in any life conditions. Independent children have good education and skills to “adult” life.
Unfortunately, many parents believe that the development of independence in children always strikes the face of danger. How can you instill this skill, if the “threshold” at home, the child is constantly exposed to risky situations? Easily, most importantly, competent to follow the instructions!
A dip in our childhood, you may recall that almost all less hypochondriac moms, dads, grandparents safely allow their children to pre-school age to walk in the yard without an adult. And sometimes even sent bread to the nearest store.
With this attitude to education, the children knew the limits of freedom and responsibility for their actions. Of course, the time was not as hostile as it is now, when the development of self-reliance have to use all new ways.
At the beginning of this “journey” the most important thing for parents is to understand that the autonomy of the child is always Continue reading
The divorce process is over. Financial problems are solved, begins a new daily life. Each parent now has the right to their privacy. Some people condone divorce quickly, others get used to the new position over a long period of time. An adult, of course, finally, it will survive and will pilestredet.
What happens to the child? From an early age, he grew up surrounded by relatives, primarily grandparents, relatives and friends of father and mother. Now this circle of people, these connections can be broken.
There is a perception that the relationship between the former spouses and their relatives must be interrupted forever, the child and the parent could Kok possible to break with the past. This solution is very controversial. The causes and reasons for feuding relatives, may be different. Often a daughter-in-law doesn’t get along with my husband’s parents. Sometimes antipathy to him there before the divorce. It is possible that it appeared reasonable. Sometimes this discontent is brewing during the disintegration of the family. The same can be said about mothers-in-law, who for some reason disliked his son-in-law, Continue reading
How to educate children so that they do not have an inferiority complex and a constant feeling of guilt? How to educate children and not to alienate them from themselves, and to stay and support, and friends and wise mentors? How to educate preschool children, to give them experience and knowledge, but to be able to respect them, to see them in full, although it is still small, but the PERSON?
No one said raising children is easy. But often we are raising children, “extreme”. A child is the hardest thing not even the fact that parents slapped his ass, or lost his temper and scolded. The hardest thing for the child that he does not always understand the actions of adults. And also the fact that in those moments when we are adult, are wrong, we still continue to persist in your opinion, don’t apologize, don’t apologize and don’t explain why behave this way and not otherwise.
Raising a child, explain to him everything, every step, every action towards him. Why did you do so? Why not let him? Why require it? To coming into adulthood, he immediately began to live according to their interests, and were not engaged in raking systems and the realization of why parents doing so and not otherwise.
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