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Why the child is crying

Only you moved away from the baby that for a while to do them, the backlog of household chores, how out of the nursery again heard a whimper. You already know that soon it will grow into a weeping, and then the child will sidesa in the Creek. What to do, how to respond to the desperate call of the crumbs?

Our grandmothers and great-grandmothers belonged to infant crying philosophically enough, considering that during crying child “develops lungs,” and therefore, will cry and stop. However, there is currently more popular view that crying is a request by a child for help, the message that it had encountered problems that need as quickly as possible to solve. Parents should not be afraid to spoil the child, responding to his every cry. According to child psychologists, to spoil a baby under one year is impossible. At the age of one year, you can either build the baby’s confidence in the safety and reliability of the new environment and surroundings, either to destroy that confidence. Attentive mother, listening to your baby gradually begins to distinguish the reasons for his crying. These causes may be different, but one thing unites them: the discomfort that this time feels scarce and he tries as best he can, to tell adults.

When the baby was missing something…

Perhaps, most often the child cries when he’s hungry. The most natural, useful and necessary food for babies is breast milk. In addition, breastfeeding is the contact of the infant with the mother. Now more and more doctors are advised to feed your baby “on demand” – it is believed that the correct mode of eating nature of the prompt itself. The need for physical contact with the mother is also one of the main reasons for baby crying. Taking the breast, the baby can feel my mother’s warmth, mother’s hands. In General, he is well, warm, safe, comfortable. And he calms down. No wonder in primitive civilizations, which have survived until the present day in some countries of Africa, the mother at first child’s cries pick him up and immediately give the Breasts. The children of Americans and Western Europeans, according to anthropology and sociopsychology, cry more often and longer because of slow reaction mom to a baby crying. A child might cry just from boredom and loneliness. According to teachers, is a big mistake that parents make is that they don’t talk to a baby when he is awake. The kid is waiting for your attention. So don’t be indifferent when he calls you crying. In each of the three described cases, the mother will hear the so-called rallying cry, which consists of alternating periods of screaming and pauses. And if the child is not paying attention, pauses become shorter, and the cry is longer. Take the baby in hand, Pat him on the back, you will move the hand on his tummy (these movements is better to make clockwise), then on the breast, head. The baby calmed down? So, he needed your attention. He continues to cry? Then pick him up, squeeze to his chest, rocking. If the child shakes his head, opens his mouth and primative, then most likely he is hungry. Hungry crying begins with the call up. But if the baby does not receive food, cries, becomes angry, and then goes into a choking cry. One of the main rules of conduct mums in the case when the child is crying is to pick him up and give the Breasts. If the baby cried in your arms, let your baby from the breast and shake it. If the baby settles down and is refusing to breastfeed, you should look for other causes of his discontent.

The child is crying because a little something is bothering…

Fatigue, General discomfort often is the reason that the kid is naughty, whimpering. Crying when you desire to sleep is accompanied by yawning, the child closes eyes, rubs them handles. Rocking a stroller or crib baby, sing him a lullaby – because my mother’s voice soothes best. If the child is hot or cold, the discontent it can also Express it by crying. To “recognize” this situation in several ways. Touch the nose of the child (touching baby skin in such cases the back of his hand, as the skin there is more sensitive). If the nose is warm, and the owner is warm and cozy. If the nose is hot, most likely, the baby is hot and you need to remove one layer of clothing. If you are at home, undress the baby, give him to drink. If the nose of the baby is cold, so the child feels cold. A sure sign that the baby is cold, is hiccup. Also you can touch baby hands, not a brush, and just above the forearm, as hands can be cool when the kid on the whole heat. Frozen baby should be covered or warmer to wear. Another common cause of crying infants – wet and dirty diapers. Usually before the actual time of urination or defecation rebootizer a sound like a squeak or a whimper, and after the operation, if the mother does not provide assistance such sounds of discontent can jump in the Creek. The discomfort in this case may worsen skin irritation. Many parents say that their baby starts to cry every day closer to six o’clock in the evening. Crying at the end of the day – a kind of discharge, giving vent to the accumulated fatigue, nervousness. Take the crumbs on his hands, rocking, sing a lullaby, give him to drink, and when he calms down, lay in the crib. Negative emotional States occur in children because of violation of the mode of the day, changes in the usual course of life. The baby will be cranky and in the case where could barely sleep, and when excited and can’t sleep. Negative, conflictual family atmosphere adversely affects the child’s behaviour: there is nothing surprising in the fact that when adults are arguing, the baby is crying. Trying to calm the child, the mother herself must be calm: her anxiety, agitation transferred to the infant. Improper care can also be a cause of discontent and crying of the child, his bad behavior during feeding, bathing, changing clothes. The baby cries when bathing and even at the sight of the bathing facilities, if acquired negative experiences with this lesson – for example, the water was too hot or the soap stung his eyes. If adults accidentally pinched the skin of a child, when buttoning buttons or the buttons on the clothes, he pulled at the handle, baby can resist and cry when dressing. Loss of appetite, crying and other protective reactions may cause forcible feeding, very hot or cold food, a situation where in the mouth of a child put a spoon full of, too quickly bring to your mouth the next portion, while the child has not yet swallowed the previous one. The habit of sucking a pacifier often calms a child, but it prevents proper growth and development of the jaws, the formation of correct occlusion. Children with increased excitability can be given a pacifier before going to sleep, but after the onset of sleep should carefully remove the baby’s mouth.