Many parents, if not strange, do not understand how to properly raise children. Child psychology is similar to the psychology of adults, and if you do what they themselves forbid their child, he is offended and feels the injustice. In this article I want to write about the most common mistakes made by adults in the process of raising children.
So, what not to do, from the point of view of psychology properly educate children:
Mom, don’t be rude!
For some reason people forgive themselves to harsh words when they are in anger. And even find excuses to your account. But now you’re responsible for the child, so no excuses not already held. You have to control your negative emotions fully and completely, to avoid unpleasant incidents with the child.
Of course, this is not always possible, especially if you’re used to react to all the shouting and harsh words. In this case, you must be ready that will immediately correct their mistakes, even to apologize in front of the child. And for the kid it will be an example of what you need and how exactly to apologize that it’s not a shame, and it is very important that you not take offense.
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Often when the word “applique” parents appear to be major
have a preschooler, dunking the brush in the glue and carefully attaching
the various elements of colored paper on an album leaf. Many
parents do not even realize that the lessons applique with children can
to start at the age of 1 year.
What is applique? Translated from the Latin “applique” means
attachment. The meaning of application – overlaying and gluing images on the background. Applique originated a very long time, long before our existence. As a material for application use paper, fabrics of different textures, thread, natural materials.
Classes applique develops your child’s pen, strengthen
fingers, introduce baby to new textures and properties of objects.
From what age you can start to familiarize children with this technique?
This is possible since the year! This does not mean that we must now
to seat one year old baby difficult to glue the applique. Classes, of course
the same is done with regard to his age features and
opportunities. Would be nice if mom and dad pre-read books for parents, which details how to make a joint creative art with Continue reading
The creation of the interior a child’s room requires special attention of the designer, creating a project plan and finishes. whether it’s a boy’s room or an interior room girls.
The owners definitely should discuss with the designer the tastes and habits of small tenants, to take account of their interests in the process of creating a kids room design. Because this room was to please them every day, to be convenient for playing games and safe.
A crucial role is played by the environment of the home, the convenience of places to sleep and procedures and with the children growing up the emphasis of the design of children’s rooms is steadily moving in the direction of increasing working areas for study and Hobbies.
In this article:
The interior of the nursery is a special design and content
Baby is always a separate area .
If it’s a room, it should be almost the biggest in the apartment, because children need a lot of space – this allows you to place in a baby everything you need: a sports complex, a small round table with chairs, and in consequence, Desk, bed, shelves, wardrobe, and possibly a sofa, and even a musical instrument. And, of course, a place to play.
If it’s a house, children’s better to take a separate area that can accommodate a bedroom, playroom and children’s bathroom.
It would seem, what could be better family for the child, because the family is instititute who invests in the child’s ability to communicate, interact, gives fully develop the child’s personality.
But such a development, the child receives only when the family is the role model for a child when in a family there is a mutual understanding and respect, love and patience.
When communication is broken, then that University is the strongest tool to destroy the personality of this child, violating all the laws of proper communication and interaction between people. And the child, instead of development and improvement, receives the destruction and degradation of the individual.
The impact of conflict on child
The article “the Role of family in child development” we looked at the importance of family in child development and how it is affected by the absence of one parent.
Of course, it affects badly on the child but if the child observes the frequent scandals in the family, in which parents are insulting each other, humiliate, if there is physical abuse, then it does not lead to violation of personality, as in the case of absence of a parent, and lead to its collapse.
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Child’s drawing we can be very telling. When children draw, they spill out on paper all the emotions. So I think psychologists. Children’s drawing – it is a reflection of the child’s soul, his feelings.
If you want to know that your kid at heart, ask him to draw pictures of their family. Now You can decipher a child’s drawing, with the recommendations of child psychologists.
Child’s drawing on the family: what does it mean?
First of all, when a child begins to draw, note the sequence in which he paints of each member of the family . When he first drew myself, do not think that you have a growing selfish. On the contrary, it’s even good. Indeed, in the notion of the baby around him and his feelings the whole world revolves. However, if he painted only yourself, then this suggests that the child does not feel like part of your family, and lives in its representation of itself.
If the kid forgot to draw a brother or a sister or drawn schematically . finely unlike the rest of the family means that the child is jealous, feels the competition for love, affection and attention Continue reading