How to educate children so that they do not have an inferiority complex and a constant feeling of guilt? How to educate children and not to alienate them from themselves, and to stay and support, and friends and wise mentors? How to educate preschool children, to give them experience and knowledge, but to be able to respect them, to see them in full, although it is still small, but the PERSON?
No one said raising children is easy. But often we are raising children, “extreme”. A child is the hardest thing not even the fact that parents slapped his ass, or lost his temper and scolded. The hardest thing for the child that he does not always understand the actions of adults. And also the fact that in those moments when we are adult, are wrong, we still continue to persist in your opinion, don’t apologize, don’t apologize and don’t explain why behave this way and not otherwise.
Raising a child, explain to him everything, every step, every action towards him. Why did you do so? Why not let him? Why require it? To coming into adulthood, he immediately began to live according to their interests, and were not engaged in raking systems and the realization of why parents doing so and not otherwise.
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Tune in to education; take for new school course as a further means of moral development of your child; you are the main child carer.
The purpose of the new course was aimed at creation of conditions for spiritual and moral development of the student. Student education in the school will be carried out in lessons (by means of educational content, through the dialogues of teacher and student, students with each other), creative activities (preparing learners for the final creative tasks), in extracurricular activities (the celebration on the eve of national unity Day). In lessons teachers will talk to the child about morality, but if the parents do not show interest in these issues, do not define for the child the parent’s moral position, all taught in school will not have for him a special significance.
New, moral-oriented course opens to parents, other adults additional opportunities for strengthening and development of relations with the child. In younger adolescence, when the child first in an adult begins to look at the world around us and to appreciate our place in it, he is especially in need of spiritual connection with adults, native to it by the individual.
The basic meaning of confidential communication of adolescents with adults in receipt of certain information. The main thing is to find understanding, sympathy, help Continue reading
let’s Start with the fact that divorce is the loss of the relationship. Great stress have both the divorcing couple and their children.
All the parents in the divorce process are different.
No matter how the divorce went down, “gently” or “violently” suffer the children, but in a different way of showing it. It depends on the age of the child and the degree of closeness to parents.
Very difficult to carry the children situation, when parents begin to sort things out in court with whom the child will live. If it’s a few children, parents often begin to divide children between themselves as things. Father and mother don’t want to understand that children are one.
To soothe my conscience, children ask: “who are they more like your father or your mother?” But the child loves and mom and dad very much, for him they are the closest people, the closest people. It support, it support, that’s life. Separation from one parent, this separation of parts of the soul. It is a deep psychological trauma for life. A child torn between two parents. He wants his loved mom and dad. At such statement of a question whom he loves, who wants to live for him is insufferable anguish. In this approach, the child loses life balance, internal balance, Continue reading
Author’s Preface This book is about the communication of adults with children and to some extent adults among themselves. It continues and deepens the theme of my previous book “to Communicate with the child. How?”
Judging by the reader reviews, the first book was useful. Many people told me about the positive changes in their lives that occurred after reading it. In meetings with very different people – they were parents and children, couples and singles, students and business people – we discussed the difficult issues of parenting, communication problems, difficult situations. So have accumulated a living material, which was included in the new book.
In addition to living stories, the book uses the ideas of outstanding professional psychologists, educators, philosophers and thinkers. Another priceless steel material vivid descriptions of emotions in works of fiction, memoirs, biographies and autobiografia. It is only through real stories, personal experience and practice, you can reach a deep understanding of what was trying and trying to give us outstanding humanist scholars and practitioners who have chosen as their profession to help people in the education of children and the development of the self. Therefore, every “theoretical” is the word I’m trying to illustrate the ‘practical’ history and, conversely, Continue reading
Only you moved away from the baby that for a while to do them, the backlog of household chores, how out of the nursery again heard a whimper. You already know that soon it will grow into a weeping, and then the child will sidesa in the Creek. What to do, how to respond to the desperate call of the crumbs?
Our grandmothers and great-grandmothers belonged to infant crying philosophically enough, considering that during crying child “develops lungs,” and therefore, will cry and stop. However, there is currently more popular view that crying is a request by a child for help, the message that it had encountered problems that need as quickly as possible to solve. Parents should not be afraid to spoil the child, responding to his every cry. According to child psychologists, to spoil a baby under one year is impossible. At the age of one year, you can either build the baby’s confidence in the safety and reliability of the new environment and surroundings, either to destroy that confidence. Attentive mother, listening to your baby gradually begins to distinguish the reasons for his crying. These causes may be different, but one thing unites them: the discomfort that this time feels scarce and he tries as best he can, to tell adults.
When the baby Continue reading